Im married to my husband n hv a son together. We lived apart for a year bcoz he decided to provide for his parents n siblings n totally abandoned his wife n child. When i gave up after waiting for a year n decided to move on, he came back apologised n we moved in together. Things were fine for first two months, his family hates me (they live in pakistan) but he was gd we went on holiday to Europe n i fell pregnant which was unplanned. When i found out i had mixed feelings but thoughts its a blessing n told him n immediately he told me to get abortion n said hes not financially ready. When i said how can u b like that then nxt morning he was ok n accepted the pregnancy. He began to change like he was before. I dnt work i stay home with toddler n cook clean etc. He works Monday to Friday n weekend hes meeting with friends etc n playing cricket. I am now 9 weeks n i feel extremely tired n sick n when i tell him to get something to eat from outside hes telling me hw broke he is to evn spend £2 n i hv to cook at home. Later on same day hes showering so much money on his back home family, ordering take aways n paying using his cards etc. I hv to beg him evn if i needanyrhing for the child. He is always in bad mood with me i can never say anything to himbcoz of his reaction. He makes me feel disrespected always belittling me n always telling me to scream n shout at the toddler to discipline him.

Today he woke up at 7 am with the child n decided to hv breakfast while not giving anything to the child to eat. After playing around for an hour or two, my son came to wake me up as he was hungry. When i askd husband if hes had breakfast n if so he couldhv given it to the child n he said well whats the fuss cnt u make breakfast again. Im having cramps n some spotting n hating him so much bcoz of his attitude n behaviour n just wish no pregnant woman should hv a husband like him. My first pregnancy was also disastrous with him as i ended up in hospital with high heart beat bcoz of his arguments n behaviour with me. Im thinking of terminating this pregnancy n icnt discuss this with him at allcoz hes just taking advantage of my condition n treating me like shit n he will argue with me n make mefeel shit more n also tell bad abt me to his family n friends which he does anyway to look innocent. Hes very sweet n innocent in front of ppl including my family n at home with me hes a beast. His expressions his ego the way he ignores me n child... r these just my hormones or what? Anyone been in this situation? Help me plssss