Friend rant/ advice?

Question

So I thought I was really good friends with this girl, so like a year or so into our friendship we started on with the regular girl gossip on boys and such. Now I’m not looking for judgment or anything because I’m always safe and I always get home, I also understand what the potential dangers of my actions are. But we got on the topic of “one night stands” she was saying she’s never had one. Well I’ve had quite a few because I prefer causal sex rn over a relationship just because I’m so busy since I’m a college student. Well I only told her about a couple, she then pressed me for more information so over a course of a few months she learned about a few more. She never really said anything about it and hey, she’s my friend right. So then we got the same job and started hanging out a lot more since we live in close proximity. So she kinda started asking what happened on nights I went to the bars kinda like she already knew I had a one night stand, without me even telling her. I found out she was snap mapping me... which I thought was kinda weird but I chocked it up to she’s just checking on me. But lately she seems like she’s holding resentment towards me about it since she makes “backhanded comments and jokes” that aren’t funny and hurt my feelings tbh. She also judges how much I drink and just what I’m doing with my life in general.  
I’m now starting to wonder if I should say something or ignore it. I’ve stopped telling her anything because It’s just gonna end up in a fight over her judgments... 
Should I say something? What should I say? Is the friendship even worth it anymore? Why do people think its ok to judge others actions!! 
 I have another friend who supports me in everything even if she doesn’t always agree and I think that’s how friendships should be. I only have a couple friends and don’t wanna cut one out if I’m just being “crazy or sensitive” 
Has anyone had a friend like this?

Answer

Hm. I dunno. Personally, if she’s judging you and prying for the details...I’d just stop talking to her about it. Tell her you’re not comfortable talking about it anymore. Take her off your snap. No one should be mapping you, not even your own Mother. I had a friend who literally had a new guy in her apartment every night for months and I never once looked down my nose at her or thought less of her. Not even when she confided that she could no longer count the number of partners she had had. I just told her to make sure she was doing it for the right reasons, not to cover past trauma, and to be safe! True friends show concern but don’t judge or shame. I’d talk to her about it and let her know that you feel judged when she ____. If she gets defensive, that could be a red flag.