He’s hanging out with other girls and not telling me..

Okay so here’s my issue.

I know he’s going to have other friends who are girls and I definitely don’t want to be controlling and hold him back from the living the life he wants to live, but it’s just the fact that he isn’t telling me..

Last night I was at home in bed and he casually mentioned that he was hanging out with some people which is kind of the first red flag? Usually if he’s hanging out with anyone he’ll say “the boys” and I know the entire group already and there’s no need for me to worry, but that’s not what he said.

I wasn’t really worried at that point, it was whatever, i try not to be controlling and let him hang out with whoever he wants.

But then I saw a video on Snapchat of him hanging out with a girl and she was laughing VERY loudly, you know the whole “I’m interested” laugh 🙄

And I have a really bad past in relationships, I think I’ve only been with like 2 guys that haven’t cheated on me so I’m pretty scarred, but I try not to let that get in the way of our relationship.

BUT at this time I’m kind of crying which is lame I know.

But then his best friend gets arrested for a blood alcohol level of 0.4 and I’m just starting to wonder what he’s been doing all night?

On top of all of this, he was posting on social media all night without texting me once..

And then he wakes up this morning telling me how much he misses me and loves me but idk. I’m pretty mad actually which is kinda lame.

I try not to be controlling because I don’t want to hold him back from being himself but I’m worried and anxious and I don’t know how to bring that up to him or what to do.

Update: Sorry for the misunderstanding, we don’t live together and we’ve been together for a couple of months.