What is up with this dude
So on Friday, me and my man went out and had such a great time and everything was good and he was happy as a clam. Saturday he didn’t talk much which I understand because he said he was helping a friend and doing some side work on trucks. Late that night I asked if he wanted to go see Incredibles 2 on Sunday. Friday night he showed me that he had $1800 in his bank account. So I thought that we could definitely go.
Saturday night I went to the boardwalk with a couple friends that had just graduated, I’m a year behind them so I wanted to see them. My man stopped by, didn’t even talk to me, kissed me once, faked a phone call to get him out of there and left.
Sunday was absolutely terrible. I tried to talk to him and only got one word answers and never showed me his face in his snaps. (Not normal at all) He never told me what he was up to. He told me he doesn’t have enough money to go see a movie (I don’t even get food there so its not expensive). I said okay thats fine and then asked if he just wanted to hang anyway and he said Maybe Later, then just left me on open. I asked him if everything was alright, and that he was very quiet today. He said “I’m fine” but clearly something isn’t right.
I want to help and comfort him but he won’t tell me whats wrong. I asked him what was up with all the short answers and he pretended he didnt know what I was talking about. I asked him to just tell me if something was bothering him so I could help. He said “I don’t want to get into it” I don’t know if that means its something thats wrong between us or something else. I WANNA MAKE HIM FEEL BETTER BUT HE’S HIDING HIS FEELINGS.
It will be 11 months with him on Tuesday, I’m not sure why he can’t tell me whats bothering him. (Also bothers me that he suddenly can’t afford to see a
movie after he showed me the $1800 in his bank account. He doesn’t have any huge expenses yet, idk wtf he could spend that amount of money on in such a short time. But its not my money so I wont bother him about that)
also idk if this is a rant or asking for advice so just tell me what you think lol
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