me and my spouse have been trying for almost a year now to have a baby in that year hes only gotten off three times. he has low testosterone and i currently have one child (not his from a previous relationship) we are so blessed with her but he wants his own children. i blame myself even though he confirms its not my fault and i know its not but i feel bad. we have asked his doctor but he says boosting his testosterone could lower our chances. he has a high sex drive but he just cant ejaculate. do you have any tips to help us? im willing to do anything to make his dream come true (and he is open to adopt and sperm donors {which im not sure of} but its at least three years away so we can be married two years before hand)