Jerry Springer moment in my driveway!

I am at my wits end with baby mama drama! Why does this girl constantly keep the bs going? She comes TWO HOURS EARLY to pick up the boys because she heard that my SO is out of town today and the kids are with me and she hates me.

I had just pulled into the garage, after having driven around running errands with two three year olds. Did I mention it’s 115 degrees today? So I was already exhausted. The sun will drain tf outta you. Anyway the boys had been behaving and I got them ice cream....chocolate, so it was all over them. I thought I had two hours so I came in the house, tossed the boys in the tub, put their clothes in the wash (they gotta go back to her in what they had on) and my SO calls telling me that their Mom is up the street and to just give them to her. 🙄🙄🙄🙄. I let him know what was up and he was like well she’s early anyway so she can just wait and of course I agreed.

I look on the security cameras and she’s pulled up and blocked the driveway and is just standing at the end of the driveway with her arms crossed like she’s a soldier on watch. In order to save time, I had my 13 year old daughter helping me. She cleaned up the ice cream from their car seats and I told her to give take them out to their Mom. Why is this heifer talking crazy to my 13 year old? Telling her she’s wants to speak to me, she’s taking my SO to court, she’s calling the cops because I won’t give her her kids. My daughter told her that they were in the tub etc etc but she was just going off.

Our upstairs air conditioning is out. I swear it was hot af. I’m rushing to get the kids bathed and dressed, they’re chasing the dog around the house and I’m sweating like a field hand chopping cotton. I finally get done and I go outside with the boys. I had to put their washed but not yet dried, clothes in a plastic bag because I don’t wanna hear no shit about her not getting her clothes back (more past bs). As I’m walking up to her I’m telling her why the clothes are in a bag. She interrupts saying she had something she wanted to ask me. I’m like 6 inches away from her and she asks “why do you feel the need to be controlling in this situation”? I’m like

I’m sorry but I’d had enough of her so I said “whatever” and turn around to walk back in the house. Well the boys were running from her and one ran right back into the house with me and the other headed for the backyard. I picked up the one that ran in the house and brought him back outside. Then she starts talking shit, threatening me. Why she keeps saying she’s going to whoop my ass FOR THE PAST THREE AND A HALF YEARS, I don’t know 🤷🏽‍♀️, but seriously I was ready to get that whipping TODAY.

She actually says to me “I bet you won’t step on the sidewalk”...meaning off my property. Of course I walked my ass down there, put my phone down and was like “I’m here bitch, now what?” What do you think she did? NOTHING. We’re trading insults and you claim to wanna whip my ass but you do NOTHING when I’m right in front of you.

I’m actually ashamed for letting her take me there but I’m sick of the bs. She told my SO earlier today that all I needed to do was apologize to her and everything would be squashed. That’s some bs. If I owe her an apology she definitely owes me an apology. Apology for what? She’s screaming at me that my SO is only with me for my money....WHAT MONEY? I’m not working; he is!

The truth is that she’s mad he’s with me and I’m she’s half my age; he has joint physical and legal custody and pays her no child support (as ordered by the court) and I gave him the money so he could take her court and encouraged him three years ago.

She need to stop acting like her kids don’t have shit to do with me. Like does she really think the only person in the house that interacts with them is their dad? I’ve been in their lives since day 1. I’ve cared for them I’ve cleaned them, I’ve fed them. I’ve done everything for them that I did for my own children and I’m sick of being threatened and sick of her.

Whew....feeling better now after venting.