So I’ve known this guy for three years, we are in the same career, And he told me he had a crush on me a month after we met each other but I had a boyfriend (a really toxic relationship) but he told me he just wanted to get it out of his chest and we continued being friends, so then I broke up with my boyfriend but this guy started a relationship with this other girl and I started to date another guy. So at the beginning of this year I asked him for his girlfriend but he told me they had broken up (this was his first girlfriend ever, he’s 21) but I was in relationship with the guy I was dating before, little after that I broke up with this guy (it became a toxic relationship) and after the breakup he made my life hell, he became a stalker, always waiting for me outside my classrooms, talking to my friends, calling me and texting me, telling me he was going to commit suicide, telling me I owed him a second chance...it was a nightmare and it went on for like three months. I felt like I was going to lose it cause my ex knew a lot of personal stuff and was using it against me, But my friend stayed by my side all that time (at that point I had already told him that maybe after some time we could try dating and see where it could get us) guys he waited four months! Almost five!! Going out with me, talking and texting almost everyday and without kissing, grabbing my hand or trying anything because he wanted to respect my space and knew that I was going out of a really rough situation. So a week ago I finally kissed him and he told me he loved me...and I told him I loved him too because I do, it’s the kind of guy I’ve never been with and the one I never though I would date...but I love how our “relationship” is growing, he’s not only my lover, he’s my best friend and treats me like a queen. I’m so happy guys! I’m still a little scared because I’m like a magnet for toxic relationships, but this feels so right I need to give it a shot!

I just love how we get along, he makes me feel so comfortable