Is it weird I don’t want anyone to know when I go into labor or after I have the baby until I’m home? It’s my first baby and I don’t want everyone to be at the hospital or trying to hold my baby because we all know how it is when people have babies and everyone goes to visit and never wants to put the baby down and I’m to nice to tell them to put the baby down but my husband disagrees and says when I go into labor he’s going to call his parents also his mom wants to be in the room and I don’t want her in there but she says she’s going to anyways 🙄 am I being selfish I just want that time to be for my husband and I and not everyone else!