honeymoon $$$ (and wedding I guess)

Angelina • 26. 9 years w/ my love. Married 💍 I'm an artist, nature lover, Crystal collector, mommy to 2 doggies and our babies, Lilliana 5/26/16 & Elena 5/10/19

my fiance and I have decided to plan our honeymoon first and then our wedding. probably weird and probably not what most people do, but we want to spent more money on our honeymoon than we do on our wedding. which is probably also weird. 😅

where did you go on your honeymoon and about how much would you say it cost you to go? we are looking at Costa Rica possibly. and then how much did your wedding cost you and what size wedding did you have. (small 50 ppl or less, medium 50 to 100 ppl, or large over 100 ppl) and was it a "destination wedding" or not?

how much would you say is TOO much to spend on a honeymoon?