Need to rant!

So I can’t sleep, it’s 12:21am where I currently am. I’ve been having this gut feeling for a few days that my S/O is hiding something on his phone. We’re in a damn decent relationship so I don’t need anyone commenting on that area but we have had a few hiccups in the past. We’ve been together 2 and a half years and at the start he was pretty bad with talking to exes and having pictures of other girls on his phone or talking inappropriately to other girls but things have been fine for over a year now.

So anyway back to this gut feeling, every time I’ve had a gut feeling there has been a pretty good reason for it and would you look at that! He has, we’re currently on holiday and we pick up the keys to our first house on Friday so I’m in a bit of a sticky situation.

Literally a couple of minutes ago I found some chats from a girl, they were just your friendly common chats and I’m not the type to not let him have friends who are of the female variety. From what he’s done in the past, i still have some trust in him. But as I dig deeper (gut feeling, know I’ll find something) I find pictures of same said girl in his phone files, ones of her posing in underwear and as we girls are great detectives I scan the image looking for evidence and I see a sex toy sorta shoved underneath her... so I dig even deeper and low and behold videos of her sent to him of her masturbating with said toy.

Again we’re on a family holiday with his parents but do I wake him now or wait till tomorrow when we can talk alone?

Rapid responses go!

If anyone needs to know I’m 21 and he’s 24

(Sorry for the longass rant)

Update: woke him, kinda meanly but what do you expect 💁🏼‍♀️ he grovelled like men do, says he has no explanation so on so forth. But there’s not a lot I can do from where we are right now. Can’t really afford a plane ticket home (I ain’t swimming that far either!) So we’re going to wade this holiday out, there’s not long left, and pick it up when we get back home!!!