Soo i am a 21 year old female. Ive known i like other females since i was in middle school. Therefore i thought i was bisexual up until my junior year of college when i thought i only like women because sex does not work for me with guys. I dont get aroused. The sex is trash. Ive had sex with multiple men and they all sucked. I started to think i had a sexual dysfunction. I then had sex with a girl and realized there was nothing wrong with me. But 2 years after coming out as a lesbian, im quite confused because i still like guys emotionally, it just never works sexually. My friends think i just havent found the right guy, but how can i have perfect sex with random girls , yet not have that connection to a guy i have feelings for.

Lately ive been tryingvto have sex with guys just to see if im actually a full on lesbian but i just always prove myself right because it never works

Ps. I was raped while growing up. I personally dont think thats a factor but maybe it is ? Idk. I also grew up thinking i was suppose to like boys. Maybe thats a factor. Idk

HELLLLLPPPPPP !