Anyone have a spouse with strong religious beliefs

So my husband has been struggling with the religious and moral beliefs associated with <a href="">IVF</a>. He finally came to terms with us going through it, and we are in the middle of it. Yet we just found out that one of our two good embryos has only one X chromosome. He is upset that we will not be using that one and it will more than likely have to be destroyed(he is calling it an abortion!) I don’t know what to say to make him feel better as he thinks if we didn’t go through this process he would never have had to deal with this. I try to tell him if this embryo would of been done the natural way it may of ended up a miscarriage or complications after birth and he says God would of made that decision not us! I reminded him that he knew this may be the result and he will not listen. Anyone felt this way themselves or their spouse?