okay guys so my military man proposed to me on father's day, he's been the love of my life since August of 2013 and of course I feel like I'm living a dream being engaged to my bestfriend but August 9th of last year I lost my mom due to cancer and my older siblings and father have struggled just as I have, now with more stress of an upcoming wedding and a move to Texas which is 18 hours from home, I'm nervous and torn about leaving my family. Advice?