so im starting to get stressed out about giving birth. i had a previous c section and this time will be attempting a VBAC. well me and my husband couldn't come to terma with it just being me, him, and my mom. so we agreed itd be just us. well now my SIL is transferring to L&D; and says she hopes shes working when we go into labor sonshe can be there. wpuld it be wrong of me to request that i not have her if she is working? like if i cant have my mom i sure as heck dont want anyone else