Hey ladies,

I wasn’t sure where else to talk about something like this, and I’ve never really had to go through this so I wanted to ask for some advice.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for just over three months now and I was recently out of town for a month, came home on June 26th.

The past few days my sex drive has plummeted, like to the point of if my boyfriend just tries to get a little handsy while we’re cuddling I get extremely uncomfortable and pull him off. I feel terrible because I want to feel like I can meet his needs sexually, but the only way I can describe how I’m feeling is just completely disconnected. From myself and my body and him. I know I care about him deeply and I really do love having sex with him. It’s just weird for me to have a sudden drop like this considering my drive is usually normal/high. I know it could just be part of my cycle or it could be something to do with my depression/anxiety but I just wanted to ask for some other ladies’ opinions and see if and why any of you have experienced something similar.

Thanks dolls 💋

*UPDATE*

Shortly after this I discovered I was pregnant!!! So talk about crazy hormones lol 😂

I had so so many mixed emotions and so did my boyfriend, however we discussed everything and our situation and I made the ultimate decision that now is not the time for me to be pregnant. Anyone who knows me knows that being a mom is something I want more than anything. But I know that I need to make sure I’m in a position to be able to handle something like that, financially, emotionally, and just by being in a stage of my life where I’m ready to focus solely on that.