background:

my fiance and I are 23. i got pregnant at 19. we have a 3 year old.

I stay at home currently. he works 40 hours. i am not trying to be ungrateful but my fiance is LAZY.

he has maybe changed our skns diaper 15 times since a baby. baths are few and far between and when i ask for him to, he sits on his phone the entire time on FB. sometimes without washing our sons hair.

he will point out that my sons diaper is full instead of changing it himself.

time off work/getting off work includes him "finally being able to relax" which is closing the curtains & watching tv or playing games ALL DAY.

he refuses to cook anything because "it doesnt interest him" he doesnt even know how to grill -__-

he doesnt help with ANYTHING.

when i talk to him abiut it, he changes foe a week or two and reverts back to his lazy ways.

i told him i dont want to reiterate myself for years to come about this. i need advice.