So my husband and I are high school sweethearts been together for 8 years and married for 2 years on the 9th of this month we have a 17 month old daughter. So recently we found out that a friend of ours from high school that we lost contact with shortly after my graduation(husband graduated the year before us) has been going thru transitioning. He was a Pathological liar and would end up making up crazy things that we all know weren’t true about his life. He even made up a lie about me and my husband back in high school spreading around the school that we weren’t together anymore. Well my husband came in contact with him and that’s how he found out that he was now transitioning into a girl.

My husband and I agreed that we would go out with our friend since she ended up losing a lot of friends from high school after transitioning and we knew that had to suck. So we go out to eat we take our daughter with us and all is fine. Well today the girl is blowing up my husbands phone( my husband and I can look into each other’s phone) so I go to open it and tell her that he’s busy that he’ll text back when he can and i see her text saying hey you :) ! I see that the texts are from the beginning of June which is when we went for pizza and that they talk about anime and video games. And that they text everyday. But then it starts to become about personal things like her cramps and how her figures are now and more that are going on in her life. But she told us when we went out to eat she talks to her group about what’s going on in her life every 2 weeks. And how she never thought she’d ever talk/see to my husband again. And sending him selfies of her tattoo but not just of her tattoo like full upper body pics too.

Like today. She was telling my husband that her brother was taking inappropriate pictures of her without her knowledge until now and posting them online. Well this is where the lying comes to mind about how she was in high school. Nothing is for sure. She claims to have a girlfriend that she’s never shown a picture to us and has only talked about once. I’m proud that my husband wants to be her friend and I do too I just think she’s over stepping a boundary a bit. I also want to put that in 2013 we lost touch with her when she was her old self and that a few weeks before our wedding in 2016 my husband got a text from an unknown number from someone saying that they’ve always loved him and we’re just too shy to say anything to him. And that my husband knows them very well. We had no idea who it was it was a number off of an iPod Touch texting app so we were never were able to trace the number back. She told us that she started to change around 2015 and she had known we were getting married in 2016 and having a baby, her cousin was our best man.

I just don’t want my husband to get into any of these crazy games that she maybe playing with all the lies like she used. My husband has a kind heart and wants to be there as a friend but if she’s the one that sent the text and is trying to fight for attention for my husband I want to put a stop to her games. Thanks in advance.