Should I call bullshit? Or should I be there for him?

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So I really like this guy n here’s how our convo went after I sent him a tbh tell me what u think:

I feel real confused ab our relationship atm n this is a sensitive issue please tell me how I came across and how I should proceed. Don’t slut shame me though please lmao(:

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After reading your other posts about possibly being pregnant, I really hope this dude isn't the father. He's in no place to have a romantic relationship yet alone a child. I honestly wouldn't get into that mess. Yes, I would be a friend and listen when he needs it. But honestly just reading his messages made me feel depressed! I couldn't imagine listening to that all day, I would be miserable myself. Surround yourself with positivity!

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I think he needs medical /professional help.  I don’t suggest making this more than a friendship with limitations to protect yourself. You handled it just fine, maybe not how he wanted it but you said nice things and gave him helpful options. Though it sounds like he is far past the meditation state. You may want to help him on some level, but just know that this kind of behavior doesn’t really go away without a professional or some serious self delving and fight. Depression comes in all shapes, sizes and situations. He may be extremely depressed, or truly feel lost. But just know it isn’t your responsibility to pick him up, you can do that to a point and it help a small percentage..But this guy needs actual help from someone trained to deal with it. He clearly does have suicidal tendencies and I’d high advise not to start any romantic relationship with this person. If you have to fuck, fuck but just know that association comes to bite you in the long run. I hope he gets help , and that you keep a safe distance as a friend. Good job with how you handled it.

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Idk what deep level of depression he’s reached but he seems so casual about everything 🤨 kind of makes it hard to believe..

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I knew a few people like this when I was 15/16. Yes he may have a mental illness, but this is something different. It’s a mix of that and him being full of it. Idk him but from my experience I feel like he’s probably on some sort of drug. This has a lot of red flags for me so please keep your distance so you don’t have to deal with what I did. And about your other post, yes there’s a decent chance you may become pregnant. It’s too early right now, but you could end up becoming. You’re also feeling nauseous because you’re overthinking it, it psyches your body out. Idk how many times I’ve done that. I’d wait for your period and if you don’t get it or anything take a test and go to the dr asap! Good luck! Don’t let gross teenage boys take you down with them girl

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Babes I understand but tbh u should suggest fucking 😂 anyway I’m not a very positive person as I know where he is coming from I have been in his situation multiple times and all I wanted was just one person to care about me and for me through what I was going through so do the same for him if u feel a way for him xx

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You did a great job I don’t know if he’s really depressed put most people do it for attention and to make you feel bad I’m sorry but he needs help you can help him through this 😃just text me if you need advice

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I’d be an ear when he needs it but I wouldn’t try to have any relationship past that. He doesn’t need a gf or fwb right now.

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He sounds exactly like my ex. Wish I could help him 😥 I've tried giving him suicide help phone numbers and to find a doctor or therapist but he doesnt want the help 😐

Should I call bullshit? Or should I be there for him?

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