So my partner smokes weed and I don’t mean every now and then I mean 20.00 a day and it’s starting to cause problems. If he doesn’t have money he will ask me and yes he pays me back he works but that’s not the point every other day I’m lending him 20.00. If I don’t give it to him he calls me a slag easy and I cheat on him. He brings up stuff from our past that happens like 4 years ago just to get a reaction so I end up giving him the money any way. He knows he has a problem and fully admits that but I don’t now what to do! It started of one a night now it’s everyday and when he home on a weekend he will wake up 6.30 and go straight out for one like wtf!!! He told me he smokes it to relax but why do you need to wake up at 6.30 and smoke one right away to relax you just woke up bullshit!! Also as soon as he gets back from work he doesn’t come in sit down for hour with me and kids he goes straight to HIS cupboard and rolls up and goes across the road to his friends and smokes out the front!! I’m actually at my wits ends what makes it worse is when I say no to money the arguments are always the same I’m cheating on him I messaging some other boys I’m easy any man could fuck me all nasty things that make me feel bad! What do I do?? Need advice cos this is taking him over. Oh also I go out drinking on a Friday night and he makes me pay him 20 to watch the kids basically it’s enough for a bag! So he gets to smoke all week I get my few hours out one night a week and I still have to bye him a bag to watch his OWN kids