So I've been with my boyfriend for a bit over 10 months now but lately I've been scared and unsure of how I'm feeling. We fight more than I like, I'm not sure if that's part of it but yeah. So most of the time I have that "he's my boyfriend and I love him" feeling, just sort of neutral you know? Then other times I'll be overwhelmed by how much I love him and be really caught up in it, but sometimes I question what I feel. I'll have patches where I think "is it worth it" if we fight a lot, or I'll just wonder if my feelings are real because I always hear about people with their SO and they always want more time with them and they're overwhelmingly in love all the time but I'm not like that. Sometimes I feel it but other times I'm not sure and it freaks me out. Is this normal? Does anyone have any advice?