I'm so sick of helping with no appreciation and drained of everything that can possibly be taken from me. I have a baby and just got our own place. no furniture cent what's needed for baby and an air mattress. yet my sister in law asks for money. and we always end up caving in. and when I say no I'm suddenly a selfish pos. so, I've cut her off. she gets gov help for 4 kids... why does she need more money for food??? my only assumption is drugs.