I need advice. This is an issue I’m struggling with. I’m getting ready to move states away to be with my boyfriend but recently I discovered he has been messaging a girl where he lives. He’s new to the area and says she’s a friend who can help plug him in to social events there. He also assured me that he would introduce us. I’m not comfortable with them messaging or hanging out alone. I’m trying to be gender neutral when it comes to his friends but it’s hard. I looked (creeped) on his phone and discovered he deletes their messages. This makes me think it’s inappropriate but should I admit what I did and confront him? Or should i wait and meet her to see if it’s truly nothing?