OK so current situation isy husband, 6yr old and I live with my mother and her useless anger addled bf in a 2 bed 2 bath house. turned the living room into a bedroom for my daughter. our goal being helping my mom fix and sell the house. this house is a bottomless pit that is killing us and making my husband and I fight. her bf fancies himself a dog breeder, keeps having pups, giving them away for free then keeping one (he's up to 6 and I'm absolutely disgusted with him, my mother is resigned and just decided this is apparently her life now) and my mom and husband feed water and care for them because he won't. my husband is nocturnal from working nights. I work early in the mornings (6 am to 4 pm) the roof needed replaced, floors replaced, yard cleaned up, my shower replaced, toilet fixed and the list gets longer each week. last month a septic company came and blew out our lines. now our pasture is underwater and the water bill came in and it is 1200 dollars! 1200! OMG I'm a nut case right now. we have water turned off now because it's using 50 gallons every few minutes. it used 3k gallons last night. IDK what to do. I'm at my wits end. we can't leave my mom to do all of this, to PAY all if this by herself but we can't get ahead, we can't get a place of our own, we can't even by for the baby now.... I'm just... IDK. I don't think there's really advice I'm looking for other than someone to say it'll be okay and will work out somehow. I feel like all hope is in eclipse