Anyone else relate? (TTC)

Megan

My husband and I have different schedules. I will come home from work, he will leave for work (I try to get supper in before he leaves) he works nights Thursday-sundays. His schedule is so messed up (10hr shifts) that even when he is off he goes to bed early because he is tired. He got this new job a few months ago. We have a 19 month old son. TTC baby #2! He will be getting weekend day shift just not sure when! We rarely get one on one time, and I told him I don’t want to make TTC a job! I’m in my fertile window and we only BDed once! I don’t want to stress over it, feeling like I missed it, missed the chance, or it being hard on our relationship. We know we are ready as by the time we have another baby I will be able to work less/be home more. And he will work day shifts hopefully sooner than later. I know timing is everything. But what about you all? Do you and you SO have different schedules? How do you make it work and make time for you two?!