I’m annoyed with people trying to mom shame me 😡

So this is my first pregnancy and I don’t think I’m going to breast feed for different reasons . But everyone is trying to say I’m going to be a bad mom or I don’t care about my baby and I just don’t think that’s right or that’s fair what is the correlation between the two ?! My own boyfriend tried to tell me I don’t care and we’re not on good terms cause I told him to fuck off basically . how can anyone especially him judge me and say I don’t care for my baby? And anyone else I talk to always tries to talk down to me like I’m a terrible person it’s MY choice it’s aggravating me 😡 just needed to rant on this I have no one else to rant to