I cannot change my baby’s gender

Here is what I would like to say to my family:

Please stop telling me that it would’ve been nice if I was having a girl. Please stop saying how we *need* to have a girl next. Please stop telling me “oh well, it’s good to have one boy in the family” as some sort of condolence that I’m having a boy. I did not choose my baby’s gender and I cannot change it. All it does it piss me off and make me sad so please, stop. I am only 4 months pregnant and am already planning my next pregnancy because of your stress. Please, let me be.

UPDATE: Whoa 😳 I never expected this to go viral. I hate that this is a topic that hits home for a lot of mamas but the amount of support and love from this community is really amazing ❤️❤️❤️