My boyfriend and I are going to college and this girl who went to our high school is attending a school an hour away. She’s an extremely toxic person - she dated one of my good friends, dumped him, invited him to her house a week later, slept with him, he took that as they were getting back together, he texted her over the weekend, she didn’t respond he came to school and asked what was up, she said it wasnt them getting back together it was just for fun. But he was agreeing to something entirely different. After this she brought her new boyfriend to lunch with him so she could introduce him.

My boyfriend had a crush on this girl the year before we got together, I recently just found out so has EVERY male in their friend group. This just sounds so disgusting to me, a group of male friends with one girl who they all had romantic feelings for at one point but she turned them down. Why do they not stop being friends with her?

Anyways, right now he’s with two of the guys house sitting for her, and i get a sickening feeling whenever he’s at her house or she’s around him or I. She’s also spread many rumors about me, and tried to turn my boyfriend and their friends against me. I just don’t see why they keep her around. Does anyone else think it’s odd they let her stay in the picture? Should I put my foot down and tell my boyfriend I don’t want them to stay in touch in college?