When is enough, enough đ©
Oh my lord. Buckle up because this is going to be a long one. So first off I love being apart of a group of moms all due in January like me đ I need some opinions on what to do here ladies... So, a little over a week ago we were camping with some of my boyfriends friends, of course once shots started being passed around and I refused to take one the nosiest girl (who I donât care for at all) says âOh what are you? Pregnant?â And I said âYes. actually I amâ Now I am considerably younger than these women. They are all in their early thirties. I am 10 years behind 30. They all want to have children but either they arenât having success in ttc or they are as single as they come. So I kinda take whatâs next and chalk it up to jealousy. They said their fake âcongrats! So happy for you!â And we left shortly after that. Now, less than one week later, most of the people in the town I live in knew about my pregnancy. Funny how for 3 months there were six people that knew about my pregnancy outside of family and no rumors surfaced. No one else asked. Nothing. But the minute this girl finds out she tells EVERYONE. Iâm telling you, people I hardly even know have asked me if Iâm expecting. Little bit irritating but whatever. It gets even better. This girl told my former manager. My former manager then proceeds to run her mouth all over town about me spreading fake rumors around. THEN she has the nerve to tell my mother, who knows whatâs true and what isnât, false information like it was the truth!!!! Where do these people get off??? So as if Iâm not angry enough yet, I hadnât told my brother yet that I was expecting and when I went to do so HE ALREADY KNEW BECAUSE OF THESE WOMEN. I was outraged. But thatâs not it, former manager then goes on to tell my aunt. An aunt that I wasnât even planning on telling! She has now outed my exciting news to not only everyone that works for her but my step dads ENTIRE FAMILY. (I was not going to tell them because we arenât close and theyâre pretty judgmental and Iâm obviously having a baby out of wedlock. But come on itâs 2018 đ) I absolutely cannot believe the audacity of these women. I am so angry I donât even know how to approach the topic. Not to mention, neither of these women are more than an acquaintance and a former boss. Someone please tell me Iâm not overreacting and I SHOULD say something. Because my mother thinks I should just let it go. While my boyfriend is just as mad as I am. I donât understand why people canât mind their own business đđ
Edit: I think I should also add that it isnât that I donât want people to know because I am elated!! I want to scream it from the rooftops! Itâs that I want to be able to tell people my exciting news and thatâs being ruined for me đȘ
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