How can I make sex fun and exciting again. I have had 7 miscarriages in the last 6 years. I have been so obssed with TTC that it is killing our sex life. I am trying to learn to just enjoy my husband even when it technically isn't the right time. I should add I grew up in a extremely conservative house/ church and sex was a completely taboo topic. So even though I have been with my husband for almost 7 years I am a bit ignorant as to what all is out there.