So i know there's going to be a lot of conflicting answers here and it seems cliche to even make a post about this... but its been bothering me so i figured I'd ask. There's several love interests in my life right now and i honestly dont know who to go for. The first one, we'll call him Marc... he and i have dated before and now he's back. I wont deny that i definately still have feelings for him. He's an amazingly sweet guy and we really understand each other. Marc is an all or nothing sort of guy, so its going to be a committed relationship or nothing here. Something that worries me is that Marc is extremely, extremely invested in me and i dont want to hurt him by denying him. One other thing worth noting is that while Marc would be a lovely romantic partner, i have zero sexual intetest in him, while he has a high amount in me... Next is a guy that we'll call Sam. Sam is someone who is also very in to me, and im definately in to him too. Sam knows how to turn me on. Sam is sweet and we have a lot of shared interests. We hang out a lot and he can always tell when im upset. Unfortunately, Sam can get a tad possessive. He also says some things that are a bit creepy. I brushed them off as jokes but when i told some of my friends, they found these things concerning. I also recently talked to a girl who's actually had sex with Sam, and she said that he's not as good as he seems to think he is. Next is a guy we'll call Ray. Ray is amazing. He's sweet, he's hilarious, and we hang out a lot. I feel extremely comfortable with him. We have shared interests, the same sexual preferences, and meaningful conversations. Every time i see him, my heart leaps and i smile. Ray, however, misses his ex. A lot. And im pretty sure he sees me as a friend. Anyway, we play wrestle all the time. He's my idea of a perfect guy but i dont want to drive him away. Lastly, there's a girl we'll call Macy. Macy also likes girls. She and i spoon quite often and i feel fluttery whenever i see her. My friends are convinced that she would say yes uf i asked her out. Macy is sweet and we like to geek out together. I think she's absolutely beautiful and love spending time with her. So... There it is. These are all of the people i have feelings for. Im really bad at making decisions, please please help me!