So, I am a young mom I was 16 when I got pregnant and 17 when I had my son,

He's a little over two weeks old now.

Ever since I told my boyfriend and his mom that I was pregnant at 7 weeks they have said at least a couple times a month "It's not about you anymore" and I wouldn't even be doing anything selfish, they would just say it for no reason.

I was diagnosed with cholestasis at 36 weeks and was induced at 37 weeks. I nearly lost my son while in labor..So that was very traumatic, Anyway now that I've had my son it seems that I'm being told it's not about me almost every day by my boyfriend and his mom.

And honestly it's getting on my nerves, between trying to come back down from the intensity of having a baby, taking care of my son on my own (boyfriend and i don't live together and he barely visits when he does visit he won't even change diapers) struggling with breast feeding, and being completely sleep deprived it is heart breaking to basically be told I dont matter anymore...I know I need to make sure that my physical and mental health is okay so I can properly take care of my son I just wanna yell at both of them about how it is still about me and it's about my son, it's about both of us at the same time.