My husband and I have been long distance for almost 2 years because we both have military commitments, and (if we are lucky) we get to see each other maybe 1-2x a month for weekends. Lately, for maybe the past 4 months, we have just happened to be able to see each other when I’m on my period, and not in the mood for sex at all. He hasn’t said anything but I can tell it’s annoying him to go so long. I mean we dated for almost 2 years with no sex so it’s not like he can’t wait. But I guess I’m just wondering if it’s selfish? Not to say I owe him sex or anything but we do only see each other every few weeks and during the month I’ll be horny and talk about sex and then when I get to see him I’m not into it at all( I have really severe period symptoms and feel sick when I’m on it). He has mentioned lately that he’s getting tired of using his hand and I got mad about that, Am I overreacting? I mean the next time we see each other I’ll probably be on my period again or just getting off of it so he’s gonna have to go a while longer but usually we don’t really have any issues when it comes to sex.

I just want to know if people think I’m being selfish here?