So.. I was talking with a work college, & he said he had recently split with his wife, and that he was struggling a little bit. I didn't want to pry, so I just listened to what he needed to say (got the impression he needed to get it off his chest) he told me his wife had been raped after she walked home from work a few months ago, but he said that he couldn't cope, due to both of them only having being intimate with one another, and neither having been with anyone else.. he said he couldn't look at her in the same way again, and that's why he left.. it's NOT her fault this happened, she Didn NOT ask for this, and her whole world has crumbled around her, she can't work, to day to day things, she's lost her husband, and I really, really feel for her! so my question is, would would you do if it was your partner? husband? wife? any advice on what to say to him? I know it's been traumatic for them both, I just feel she needs him now more than ever!