So my husband has a really good buddy at his work and he thought it would be fun to go on a double date with his friend and his friends wife. I’ll call them Fred and Ethel. Well the first time we went to a fight so we couldn’t really visit much cause it was loud the second time we went to dinner then came back to our house to visit and play games. It seemed normal and fun at dinner but when we got back to the house Fred kept joking a bit with me about things I hadn’t told him about myself that I guess he knew from my husband, which was fine but just struck me as a bit odd. I know stuff about him from my husband but I wasn’t about to bring it up like I knew him so well. Anyway, so on top of that his wife kept making stabs at him and it made it kinda awkward, my husband and I would just try to change the subject when that happened. Ethel and I ended up visiting one on one while are guys went off to talk about guy stuff. We ended up talking about our past jobs and I mentioned that one time I got so fed up with my job that I just quit and that afterward I called my husband crying thinking he would be mad at me for quitting, but instead he was glad I quit and said it was all good with him. Well shortly after that they left, and then a few weeks later Fred tells my husband that his wife brought that story I told her up during an argument saying that Fred needed to be more like my hubby and let her quit her job. I was surprised that she was using something I told her as ammunition against Fred and my husband was too. I guess Fred wasn’t mad at us for anything but it just seemed weird. So we end up going on a third date to dinner and the movies. Again, Fred keeps joking with me and this time he wife hardly says anything. We get to the movies and I had to go to the bathroom so I go and when I come out to wash my hands, Ethel is touching up her make up in the mirror. I wash my hands and then pause at the door to see if she is ready, I felt awkward just watching her so I thought l would just head out and join the guys cause I knew they were right outside. So I did and she joins us a minute later. We watch the movie and then head home. A week or so later, my husband tells me that Fred told him Ethel thought I was upset at her cause I didn’t have any “girl talk” with her in the bathroom. He asked what was up with that, and I said I wasn’t upset at all. She didn’t say anything and seemed to be busy so I thought I would just wait outside so I didn’t seem like a creep. Idk but the whole thing just made me feel weird. I felt like Fred was somewhat flirtatious with me and that made me super uncomfortable and I kind feel like his wife doesn’t like me and wants to make me look bad to Fred. Am I reading too much into it? I haven’t told my husband how I felt just because it’s his best friend and I don’t want to come between them, plus I feel like it sounds like I have a big head if I say I thought his friend was flirting with me and my hubby was right there not thinking a thing about it. What do y’all think? Am I just paranoid? Thank you if you read this far. I’m sorry it’s so long.