So currently my daughters is the youngest grandchild on my husbands side and he has 2 other daughters and his sister has a daughter (a lot of girls) I’m currently pregnant with the first boy on his side his mother is very excited allot more excited than when i found out i was having my daughter i don’t want my daughter to feel like she’s not important it’s understandable that his mom is really happy i just don’t know how to tell her to tone it down or don’t forget about your granddaughter