Decided to open a box 📦 of baby stuff from last year when we expected to have a baby girl. I delivered and she didn’t make it on October 17. Most of the box was filled with gender neutral, but when I saw the couple of items I picked out specifically when I found out it was a girl I completely lost it 😭. My hubbys out of town and I kinda felt like it was a good time to tear off the band aide while he was gone .

Question:

If you’ve had a previous loss, what time frame are you going to start setting up the nursery? I didn’t lose baby girl until 21wks3d so should I wait til after that time frame ?? But I do believe this journey is going to be different and I want to be prepared at least a little early b/c I’m getting a cerclage and baby may come early or late 🤷🏻‍♀️