After a solid year of trying, I finally got my BFP! i wish i could give advise and how finally got it to work, but I really think I have to give it to God. I'd had a mirena for five years followed by the pill for three months before coming off to start trying. we went a full cycle off BC before starting and it was a long journey. I got my bfp on what I believe would be 12 dpo. i had two positive opks this month the day before and the day Glow prediction so I'm just sticking with it. i don't know if this will stick in the end as I have had a miscarriage in the past. I didn't temp, never worked for me. I did use opks for the last 6 months or so. i didn't do preseed, but I listened to my body and familiarized myself with my cycle, not just when to expect my period which i think helped in the end. Many months I swore I was because of the symtoms only to be disappointed. one solid year...now I'm scared to change my status from trying to pregnant...