I can’t orgasm??

Kelsey

For the past week, I haven’t been able to actually orgasm. Like I’ll get super close but then it just completely goes away and I’m left beyond frustrated. I’ve never had this happen before. My fiancé can’t get much out of me, and even I can’t get much out of myself. We’ve tried everything under the sun to try and get it to happen, but it just won’t. And then about 2 minutes after trying, I get severe cramps for about 20 minutes. I occasionally cramp like that for only 2 minutes after a really big orgasm. Not for 20 minutes, and definitely not after getting nothing accomplished. AF’s due in about 10 days, and normally I don’t orgasm as much a week before AF, but I’ve never not been able to. It’s getting to the point where my fiancé thinks it’s him, even though I’ve told him that even I can’t get anything to happen. Trying to avoid going to my GYNO at all costs because I really don’t like them, so thought maybe someone on here could help. Might be finally be pregnant as well, but it’s a little too early to test. So maybe it’s a hormone thing?