If your SO agrees to go to anger management because you broke up with him will it be beneficial?

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I think the only reason he’s going is because I told him I wouldn’t talk to him until he had 6 sessions and I changed my phone number today so he can only iMessage me. If he does the six sessions, I’ll be willing to discuss the relationship in couples counseling.  But if he’s going for me rather than for him will he benefit from it?  Has anyone ever gone to Anger Management?

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Yes it will be beneficial. But of course that’s the only reason he’s going. It sounds like your nit picking, because you asked him to go and he said he’ll go. why does it matter,  why he’s going?

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If he wants to change it’ll be beneficial, but if he is just doing it to please you and not putting his heart into the actual anger management therapy then it won’t be. Therapy/Counseling only works for those who want to make changes within themselves. 
I think it also depends on what he did for anger management to be considered. If he was violent towards you then I don’t think it’s worth it.  Anger management can help control anger but doesn’t install the respect he is missing IF he did in fact hurt you.
I will say that I do like that you are adding couples therapy as a stipulation. 
For all I know he could be someone who just yells a lot and is never violent 🤷🏻‍♀️. That being said, i should stop speculating ☺️. Hope that helped ... at least a little if nothing else.

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if he loves you enough, he'd be willing to try... see what happens.

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Ive never had experience with it, but if he doesnt want to change, 100 sessions wont work.

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I’ve never been but my dad went to anger management and it was great for him!

If your SO agrees to go to anger management because you broke up with him will it be beneficial?

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