what is it with men being so hard to talk to without upsetting them? if I upset my husband I always wait till the next day to try and talk to him about whatever upset him and we come to an agreement on whatever like for an example I told my husband I'm looking into health insurance for the both of us and checking out prices and he felt I was rushing into it and just yesterday we talked more about it and I decided that I'm going to enroll me and my husband in the healthcare plan through my work and he was okay with it. I just do the understand why men get so fusterated with us when it comes to financial situation. what's your thoughts?