Is getting on my nerves.

When we first met he was a clean freak he cleaned a lot. We used to party a lot and he would be the person who cleaned..

Now 2 years later into our marriage aka 4ish years together. He relies on my to either tell him what to do or clean.

He is nice enough but I am freaking 33 weeks pregnant I clean every day and to where it hurts my hips after a while standing.

The only time he cares to clean its his gym clothes or gym shaker bottles.

I feel like he will say oh I will do this but never follows through.

Its to where we haven’t gotten anything for our new baby and I completely forgot to even put her on a waiting list for daycare.

Sometimes I feel overwhelmed like I cant remember everything. When i say hey you said you would mow Wednesday because you were off work he says oh you told me to take a nap (idk if he did) he was working nights that day and was mad because our daughter wakes up early so I said take a nap during the day. Then he will resort to is this what you do wake up in a bad mood. It really set me off when he was like hey can you make a sacrifice for me and go to the track with me... he works out every damn day its the weekend all I want to do is get our house together so it isnt but off another week. He asked me this before doing anything.

Anyway when we moved he wanted a pool and I said idk are we going to actually take care of it? And he was like oh yeah. He barely cleans it. He got money from his family and i said lets use that money to buy a vacuum so he doesn’t have to worry about vacuuming up the dirt. He tells me that I have to pick it out. I told him idc lets just get one so our pool gets cleaned up. He then just said something along the lines of is this what we have resorted to just leave if its so bad.

No its not the worst situation but shit I want to not do everything or have to be his mom.