How often do you spend a WHOLE weekend with SO?

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Just curious.... 
How often do you ladies spend a whole weekend with JUST your significant other? 
I am asking because I have been married for 5 years and my husband and I only get a weekend of JUST the two of us once every 2 months or so.  
We always have a lot of prior obligations, places to be, traveling, gatherings, etc. Not to mention that my husband is extremely social and has a friend over EVERY weekend. This weekend we didn't have any plans for once and I was really looking forward to time with my husband, but he just left to go paddle boarding with his friends ☹ 
I just want a weekend with him 😭

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Almost never - unless we plan a trip to go somewhere just the two of us. We have kids, work, church & other random obligations so a whole weekend for just the two of us is extremely rare. We do go on date night once every other week that’s just the two of us so we do get some alone time together!

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Every other weekend when he’s off

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Pretty much never with the kids and then other plans/obligations that come up on the weekends. My parents will take the kids overnight some weekends so we will get Saturday night and Sunday morning, but even something like that doesn’t guarantee that we will spend that time together since hubby plays in a band and the shows always seem to fall on the same weekend that my parents want the kids. Not that it isn’t fun to see him play but sometimes I just wanna sit at home watching movies or maybe go out for a nice dinner and then come home and fuck the night away haha.

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Express that to your husband, if he spends a lot of time with his friends anyway than I’m sure he wouldn’t mind setting aside one weekend for just the two of you. My husband and I have had the same issue. He works crazy hours, Monday thru Sunday from 8am to 10pm running his own business. I ended up biting my tongue and feeling really sad that we didn’t spend any alone time together anymore. I finally told him and he just laughed and said, “Why didn’t you just tell me?” Now we have Sundays just to ourselves twice a month.

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Every weekend 😅😅 but I mean we have our LO too sooooo 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Almost every weekend. 😅

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Pretty rare. He has to work and we have other shit to get done

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Every weekend. He works Monday-Friday, 7:30am-5pm. It sucks we don’t get to spend much time together during the weekdays. But I’m thankful for when the weekend comes around.

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we work m-f jobs and live together and are homebodies. its very easy to just have a chill weekend together. its extremely draining, especially for me, to socialize too much. if i dont have regular weekends of rest, i get really mentally exhausted. then, the less i want to do things, the less my bf will want to do things. he has a much more stressful job than i do so we both appreciate a good, relaxing weekend. also, he prefers spending his time with me so he will usually try to spend his time with me

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Not often because he works so damn much 😭

How often do you spend a WHOLE weekend with SO?

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