Why be in a kink & BDSM forum if you are vanilla?

It's really surprising, and kind of frustrating, how many vanilla people are on this forum. It's 100% fine to be vanilla, but it's just dumb if you are vanilla and want to seem kinky. I see posts on here that are like ”i want my s/o to spank me, am I wierd?”, if you think that spanking is weird, or that calling your s/o Daddy means you are ssuupper extra kinky, than you probably don't need to be on this forum. It sucks when you get excited about interacting with other kinky ppl who are part of the BDSM community, and then you realize that half of the people on here don't even understand the difference between D/s and M/s or CG/L. With that said, there are lots of kinky people on here, and that's really great, but it would be even better if the majority of people here were kinky/part of the BDSM community, and there was a small amount of vanilla people who are interested in BDSM or are getting into it. And if you are a vanilla on here, the LAST thing you should do is call people's kinks gross, that happens WAY to often here.

Has anyone else noticed this?