Hi guys so I’m having a hard time dealing with all of this and everything going on and I need your guys opinion or and suggestions or if you have gone through something similar. So I worked with this guy at a school for autistic kids and from the time he started working there he just melted my heart. The way he worked with the kids and he was so funny and kind, but he had a girlfriend and they were on and off so I never tried anything. Well during summer break he had messaged me on Facebook just asking how I was doing and it turned into flirting and I found out him and his girlfriend had broken up. We started talking more and more and we immediately had such a amazing connection. We started hanging out but it was always at my house and we started having sex and we continued talking but we have only hung out and his house or mine and we only watch movies and have sex but he keeps telling me he sees us long term and he has never had this kind of connection before. The issue is is we haven’t been out in public once and we are both busy but he gets mad at me when I can’t hang out or something and he also puts me at the bottom of his list when it comes to priorities it feels like. Another thing that is hard is him and his ex were breaking up and broke up but then she told him she was pregnant so now he has a baby on the way with another girl. There is also an 8 year difference but we are at the same stage in life and age doesn’t bother me but now I have to wait for kids cause I don’t want to be baby momma number 2 and after his boy is born he will probably want to wait for awhile to have another kid so I’ll have to wait. Yet he also knows I’m not on birth control because I can’t take it and I told him I was ovulating the other day and he wanted to have sex multiple times and he pulls out but still. He’s just confusing sometimes and it’s so much to take in and this morning we were gonna actually meet somewhere and go out but we couldn’t decide on a place at all and so I didn’t end up seeing him but I feel like it’s an issue when we can’t even decide on a simple place to meet up. I’m sorry this is so long I just have no one to talk to about it and need help. I might be over thinking everything because of past relationships but I don’t know if these are actually all red flags. Thank you ladies.