Dear bio-mom
My daughter and yes I will refer to her as my daughter! Isn’t a coat you can pull out of the closet when you feel like it; she’s not a show piece at which you can put on display so you can go fishing for complements on social media. She has actual feelings believe it or not and you popping into and out when it’s convenient for you just isn’t working for her, you have not kept one promise to this child and now she doesn’t believe a word you say, you call so infrequently she doesn’t remember what you sound like, you haven’t video chatted in so long the only thing she can remember about you is you may have blonde hair she’s not too sure, but what she is sure of is your Facebook page she studied it to point where I’ve banned her because she was obsessing over asking the same questions. “Well if she has time to go to the beach why doesn’t she have time to call me?”, “If she has time to go to the bar then why doesn’t she have time to call me?”, “I thought she didn’t celebrate birthdays? Why are her friends throwing her a birthday party? Why doesn’t she call me on my birthday or send me a present?” These are questions I will never have an answer to nor will you ever take the time to tell her the truth. Just stay out of her life you’ve caused enough damage all ready
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