hello their I have a BIG problem with making my boyfriend/try x boyfriend understand that we cant be together anymore. I'm a mother of two that's not his kids but has help raise them with me. But the way we raise kids are way too different from one another. I believe a kids should be able to let the feeling out let us know how they feel about thing too. I feel kids need to learn at a young age to make Decision on there every day like food they eat clothes they wear. well for my boyfriend he think kids should have no say in nothing. And their feeling dont matter him. my child our mot bad kids they love make people laugh and caring for others. my kids are fun to be around. My X kn the other hand would tell people that my kids are bad because they ask questions and want to know how thing work or how you spell worlds. my boys want to do everything this man does but to him they are in the way. He badges me to take them to my sister all the time. So July 1 2018 I walked out told him sorry we cant work like this . that I'm trying to raise two little boys up to be men and your not asking like a man so bye. my X be like???????? lost