1) Can I catch a cold if the person who has a cold folds my clean sheets? My mom who is going through fighting a cold right now, folded my sheets from the dryer when I left a note saying to leave it until I got back at 5:30pm, I got back around 6:30pm because we had a bad rainstorm so I had to sit in a parking lot for a half hour. I’m extremely distressed right now and feel I need to wash them yet again.

2) I’m really upset when my family says that they understand when I explain my distress and people respecting my boundaries and not touching my things or going into my room, yet they still do these things that make me really fucking distressed and upset. I wish they wouldn’t say they understood because clearly they don’t seem to if they do the things continuously that make me upset.