Nervous

Ok so my partner and I asked a friend to help with having a baby. we had sex the next to last day of me ovulating. The problem now is I took two pregnancy test one saturday and one sunday. I have the as early as 5 days test. I am having slight pains and I am bloated at least to me. My period suppose to start on the 21 but I can have my period and be pregnant I have with my last three. Anyone else as nervous as I am