wtf cycle

My cycle has been all over the place for 3 1/2 months. I track my bbt and check my CM daily, along with every thing else. There seems to be no reason why it's so sporadic or any idea when I'm actually ovulating. We BD every day since my SO and I really want to have a baby. It's frustrating. After 13 years of preventing it with BC and being so paranoid that I might be pregnant, that now I want to have a baby and I can't even figure out wtf my cycle means.

Please tell me I'm not the only one.

Also, anyone have a glass of wine while they are TTC when AF is in town?