Post-Breastfeeding Help!

I breastfed my baby girl for about a month when she was born (I had to stop due to surgery to get my gallbladder removed, thanks to my baby girl lol), anyway now my nipples are HUGE because she sucked really hard and because of the pump. I HATE them! Her dad and I are no longer together and I am embarrassed to show any possible new men my boobs. They look like bologna and I don't know what to do😭. Do you have any products or ways that might help me get back to normal or feel better about them??

Thanks in advance! (I'll update if I try any recommendations and they work or don't!)